| How our own actions and choices determine our | | | | me. I have spent money on something that is not |
| success or failure. | | | | working and I am upset. This is your typical victim |
| I have been hearing and reading a lot about | | | | attitude. I have spent my money and I expect |
| becoming a leader and MLM is not about the | | | | everything to work for me and if it doesn't, I |
| products or the company, but about you. People | | | | have been ripped off. |
| will join a program because of you. | | | | On the other hand, if I accept and recognize my |
| I agree. However, not everyone is equiped to be | | | | own power,I know the responsibility to get results |
| a leader, at this present time. It doesn't mean | | | | falls in my hands. I recognize that I have gotten |
| they can't be, as we can do anything we decide | | | | tremendous value for my money and I will do |
| to do. It just means there has to be certain | | | | whatever it takes to learn how to promote this |
| changes before we can reach leader status.one of | | | | system. I have purchased a system that works, |
| the things I have learned is that whether we | | | | so if I don't have the knowledge it takes to make |
| acknowledge it or not--we are all responsible for | | | | it work for me, I will find a way to get that |
| our own lives, our successes, and our failures. | | | | knowledge. Whatever it takes. That is the |
| Once we realize this truth, we can stop playing | | | | difference between someone who is a victim and |
| the blame game and take control of our life. | | | | someone who takes full responsibility for |
| It really is quite simple, but not always easy. I do | | | | themselves. |
| know that this is my life and I have the right, as | | | | I are discussing business here, but this applies to |
| we all do, to choose what I desire to accomplish. | | | | every area of our lives. If we are having |
| All we have to do is accept full responsibility for | | | | problems in a relationship, we need to look at |
| our own choices and actions. If we accepted | | | | ourselves not our partner. If we are having |
| responsiblity for our not succeeding, instead of | | | | problems with a neighbor, we need to look at our |
| blaming someone or something else, that gives us | | | | part in the problem. The great news is, when we |
| tremendous power. All we have to do is make | | | | come from this space, we have the power to |
| whatever changes necessary to become a | | | | change whatever we want. The ball is in our |
| winner. As long as we are blaming someone or | | | | court. Simple, but not always easy. (Unless you |
| something else, we are victims. As victims, we | | | | have had a lot of practice and enjoy learning and |
| are stuck not being able to change anything. | | | | growing. ) I personally find it exciting to have new |
| However, once we accept full responsibility, the | | | | opportunities to learn and grow. Gained knowledge |
| power is in our hands to make whatever changes | | | | is "potential power". I say potential power, |
| are necessary to achieve our desires. Whenever | | | | because until we put our knowledge into action |
| there is a problem, there is always an answer. | | | | nothing is accomplished.If we are making our |
| There really is no such thing as failure. For | | | | problems someone elses fault, we have become |
| everything we try that doesn't work, we are | | | | a victim and we are doomed to fail. Victims don't |
| brought that much closer to something that will. | | | | win and victims are not leaders. We are so much |
| Do you know how many times Thomas Edison | | | | more powerful then we realize. we can have |
| found ways that didn't work before he found the | | | | whatever we want in our lives. So if we want to |
| way that did? Leaders don't quit--they find | | | | be a leader, we have to take responsibility for |
| solutions. Does this make sense? | | | | ourselves and be willing to invest in ourselves. The |
| Maybe an example will help. Let's say I purchased | | | | world is like a blank canvas and we can paint |
| Magnetic Sponsoring and I am not getting the | | | | anything we want on it. So start creating what it |
| results I am expecting. So if I blame the system | | | | is you desire and have fun doing it. |
| for my failure, I have become a victim. Oh, poor | | | | |