| "We are continually mistaking this man's controlling, | | | | On the other side of things, don't measure others |
| threatening, and hostile behaviors for strengths. In | | | | by their race, gender, age, or smooth talk. |
| reality, he is showing an underlying extreme | | | | Measure others by their skills, actions, abilities, and |
| vulnerability and weakness, the vulnerability of the | | | | follow through. |
| wounded boy." | | | | Give respect where respect is due. If a person is |
| Robert Moore, King Warrior Magician Lover | | | | trustworthy and talented, then there should no be |
| Many men and women like to brag about their | | | | no reason to misjudge that person. Undermining a |
| accomplishments. They will go on and on about | | | | persons qualities or viewing him negatively |
| their lifestyle, their expensive home, their exotic | | | | because you happened not like him or her, or |
| vacations, and their wealth. What these people | | | | basing your opinions on stereotypes and |
| don't realize is that by bragging they are lowering | | | | prejudices is childish. |
| their own value. Alpha males do not act in such a | | | | Cut through the bullshit front that some people |
| way. Men who brag are seeking external approval. | | | | put up. For, if you listen to what some people say |
| A secure and confident person will not brag about | | | | and compare it to what they actually do, you |
| his accomplishments; he does not need others to | | | | might see the difference. Don't waste your time |
| know his business. | | | | with such people. At the same time, respect |
| If you are a man of high standards, let your | | | | people with ability and talent. Respect others for |
| actions do all the talking for you. There is no need | | | | who they actually are, not for who they say they |
| to try to impress other people with foolish talk, | | | | are. |
| because men of high value don't seek approval. | | | | |