How Control-Freak-Itis Can Derail Your Success

Imagine what it would be like if you could run aIMPORTANT.
profitable six, seven or eight figure business andIs it more important to get done perfectly or to
enjoy as much freedom as you desire? Forget done? The answer should be the second one
many, the moment you decide to grow yourbut many of us waste weeks on end trying to
business you simultaneously think of all the hardget things perfect. There is a great saying, "Good
work ahead. You begin to question the dream andis good enough!"
wonder if it's really worth it.Recently I began to delegate more and more of
That's because you erroneously believe that themanaging my team to a couple of key individuals.
only path to making more money is workingIt allows me to stay focused on growing and
more. You fear you will have to give up on yourcreating rather than being a manager. Does it
precious dreams of spending more time with thealways get done EXACTLY the way I want? No.
kids, traveling to exotic vacations or even justDoes it get done in a way I can live with? Yes.
having the freedom to enjoy your Tuesday anyAnd as my friend Ali Brown, says, "No smaller
way you like.children or animals were harmed." =-)
What if you could tap into a simple way toThird, you have to hire the RIGHT PEOPLE.
achieve your dream - without having to workThe single greatest mistake that entrepreneurs
more?make when building their team is to hire from
Well, that's what I did. I found a simple way totheir gut alone. Our instincts play an important role
accomplish my bigger dream by leveraging thebut when interviewing candidates, there is a
power of a virtual team. A virtual team can bespecific process you must use to ensure you get
virtual assistants, contractors or experts whothe right people in the right roles. Otherwise,
work from their own home to help youchaos and disappointment can ensue.
accomplish your tasks in record time.In our last Virtual Team Building Tele-Bootcamp, a
The problem is that many people know about thisparticipant uncovered (finally) that the person who
strategy but still don't do it. I hear reasons like, "Iwas not completing projects on time and who
can't afford it, I don't have time to teachwas avoiding her calls was not a bad person, just
someone else, I can do it myself, etc." But thea bad fit for the role. When you discover how to
one that always breaks my heart is, "I'm afraid toidentify the RIGHT candidates, then your team
let go of the control. What if my team doesn't dobegins to work like magic.
it right?"Fourth, you have to have SYSTEMS.
Control-Freak-Itis is a common syndrome amongA good system defines how and when something
entrepreneurs around the world. It's almost likewill be done. The idea is to be able to replicate an
some type of genetic code is implanted that says,activity so it gets done the way YOU WANT.
"No one can do it as good as me so why bother!"With proper systems, you can pretty much hand
Actually, if you have a dream to make consistentoff anything to anyone (even a 16 year old) who
revenue over six figures while enjoying a lifestylecan take care of it for you.
then you MUST learn to let go so others can helpSystems can be created for how you respond to
you. You will need to build a team. It's impossiblean email or phone call, the thought process you
to experience your desired success any otheruse to evaluate an opportunity or even a script
way. There will never be enough time and energyfor following up with a potential client. The reason
to accomplish it all.many business owners shy away from giving up
So how do you overcome Control-Freak-Itis socontrol is that they have not yet created a
you can delegate effectively?system so they don't know HOW to get
First, you have to change your MINDSET.someone to do it the way they want.
You might do something well but that is not aFifth, you have to have TRUST.
reason to do it. Timothy Ferriss, author of TheTrust is what comes when you have the four
4-Hour Workweek, says "You need to createsteps above. Trust is earned through consistent,
space to do what matters most." For instance, ifpredictable behavior that is aligned with your
you are good at tweaking your website but youtarget goals. Trust is what allows the
are worth over $100/hour when working with aControl-Freak-Itis to melt away so you can truly
client or doing an interview, every hour you spendaccomplish massive results with a team.
on your website is a waste of your time becauseIf you find yourself slipping back into
you could pay someone $35/hour to fix it.micro-management or controlling behaviors, it's
That means you have to come to terms thatlikely that your trust has been compromised and
just because you are good at something doesn'tit's time to revisit one of the previous steps. The
mean you should do it. Would Donald Trump fiximportant thing is that you recognize the signs
his own site? Nope.early enough to repair the relationship so you can
Second, you have to know WHAT'S MOREgo back into trust.